Saturday, June 26, 2010

Protecting Whats Yours

Good morning (:
this , is bibi . Todays topic is protecting what is rightfully yours ; What I mean by this is, you know how you'll have a man, & there is always some bitch this is AlWAYS on his tip ? well, i definitely know how you feel on that one ladies . Before i get into this, there is one tip i have to give you - DO NOT , ACCUSE YOUR MAN W/O HAViNG ANY PROF OF ANY KiND ; why do i say that ? because, you will be the one to look stupid , instead of doing what you planned on doing & making him look stupid . Am i saying that our mans can't have girl friends ? no - hell no cos i have guy friends also , but if you think a girl is pushing up too close on your man , then you need to address the problem ; There are a few ways you could do this ; 1) you can talk to your man , & tell him how you feel & ask him to talk to the chick . 2) you can take action yourself & tell the bitch to back the fuck up , but don't like threaten her ass the first time , be calm & collect & just lay down the line . Now , ladies , you can fortunate & be dealing w/ a chick that will listen & say she understands , OR you could be dealing w/ a bitch who doesn't listen , talks shit back , & just does what you told her not to do . rotfl , my solution for that would be to kick the bitches ass but you gotta be the bigger person , let her do what she does , but just let your man know , don't talk to the bitch & if he does ? well .. handle that on your own w/ your man . But as for the girl , you need to lay down the line like before , w/ more force ; the worst case scenario would result in your having to lay the bitch out , & if it gets to that point , well do what you gotta do ; my point is, don't be afraid to protect your man cos you know DAMN WELL that he would kill a niggah if some dude was blowing your shit up . Am i right ? YESSSiRRR (:

- ♥ Bibi .

Friday, June 25, 2010

Flaunt it , don't taunt it !

Good evening ;
how are all my ladies this evening? mkay, well what im writing about today is how females be dressing like these dayys ; I know yall wanna look ya best, get some niggaahs to holla` atcha, trust, i get it but some ladies be putting too much out, im sure yall feel me on this . I
m all for the cute outfits, looking sexy for your man or whoever but I would seriously suggest to some of my ladies [especially my big booty chicks & big tittyy chicks] its good to have & strut what you got but don't put too much out for EVERY NiGGAH T00 SEE ; what i mean by this is, if you walk down the street, you'll see some chicks & be like W T F is your wearing girrl ? they be wearing shorts w/ their ass all out for the world too see, tittyys all out for every niggaah to get hard off of & then chicks wonder why they get raped now a` days, you feel me ? I mean shit, you got some cute ass clothes, shit, wear em` up girrls & make damn sure you look good, but there is a time & place for everything . you got some booty shorts & a tank top that make you look sexy & shit, wait for ya man to come over & show off for him, don't wear the shit while you mowing the lawn, or something like that, it just ain't classy & im not gonna sugar coat shit for anyone, imma tell you like it is . when my man comes over, yeah i be wearing shit to make him be like DAAAAAAMN, but thats w/ my man, in my house, ya feel me ? lol, this is the most i've talked about a topic before but ya get what im saying . Laddies, keep yourselfs looking sexy, but classy, nothing more or less, im outtt .

- ♥ Bibi .



Eveninq Laddie .
This Kiki . What My Mainns Bibi Said Upp There Is Fuckinq True As Shit ! Listen Laddies , Comminq From Biqq Booty & Biqq Titty Girls Listen To Us . Your Jewls Dont Always Have To Be Out For The World To See . If The Shirt Dont Fit , Dont Buy It . That's Another Thinq . My Thickk Laddies ! Listen Up . If You Seem Some Girl Walkinq Down The Street W / A Cutee Ass Top & Some Cute Shorts , And You Decide You Wanna Buy That Outfit , What Do You Do ? If It Flaunts Your Curves , Get It . If You Know Your A Size Nine , Dont Go Gettinq A Size Three ! It Looks Trashy . And Now , You Have A Muffin Top . Trust me Laddies , That's Not Cute ! & If It Does Attract Guys , Its For The Wronq Reasons . Second Thinq I Wanna Say Is . If You Know That A Shirt Wont Look Good , On A Certain Body Part , Dont Get It . Am I Sayinq Biqq Boobie Laddies , Always Wear Baqqy Shirts ? Deffiantly Not ! I Dont Wear Baqqy Shirts & Never Plan On It . Just Know What Looks Good On Your Certain Body Type. And Like Bibi Said Before . There Is A Time And Place To Be Showinq Off More Skin . What We Mean By That Is . Please Dont Go Shoppinq W / Shorts That Are Ridinq Up Your Ass Crack & Havinq Your Ass Hanq Out . The Clevaqe Thinq - Please , Once Aqain . Dont Go Around Showiinq Your Girls To The World . Honestly I Think Females That Do That , Have No Self Esteem . Why ? Because , They're Drawinq Attention To ALL The Wronq Places . If A Girl Can Make Baqqy Sweats & A Baggy Shirt Look Good. She's Walkinq Around W / Confidence . Confidence Is What Makes Us Laddies Beautiful . And Dont Get Me Wronq , A Woman Should Always Leave The House Lookinq Her Best ! But If You Dont Have Confidence , You Can Spend Hours Gettinq Ready & Noone Will Notice You . Even If Your The Prettiest One In The Room . Confidence Is Beauty. The Way We Walk Around W / Our Head Held Up To The Sky . & Like Bibi Said . The Stuff I Wear For My Man , In The Privacy Of My Own House - Be Makinq His Jaw Drop . But That's Our Business . Noone Else Needs To See That . So Laddies , Lets Clean Up Our Act A Lil Bit & Make Us Classy , Not Trashy . And Most Importantly . Lets Gain Respect For More Than Our Looks !
- Kiki .

You Told Me Imma Princess , What Happened ?

Afternoon Laddies
This Kiki Here .
I Just Wanna Know , Who Here Feels Like They Get Treated Differently , When Their Man Is Around Other People ? I Bet Many Of Yall Are Readinq This & Feelinq Like Its Fuckinq True ! Well , Imma Tell You A Lil Sumthan About This Situation . When Guys Are Around Their Friends , They Hide Their Emotions , And Dont Seem To Pay Attention To You As Much . Why ? Well , Because They Miqht Feel Like - If They Do Show Their Emotions , Their Boys Miqht Make Fun Of Them , Or Whatever . Do I Think This Is Riqht ? HELL NAH ! I Feel Like , If You're In A Relationship , You Should Be Commited To Your Person , REGARDLESS Of Who You're With . Now Men , Are We Tellinq You Not To Have Friends ? No - HELL No . But We Would Appreciate A Little More RESPECT When You're Around Them . Oh , And Anotherr Thinq , You Should Never Keep You're Mouth Shut About The Situation . If You Feel Like He's Disrespectinq Yuh . Say Somethinq ! Even if Your Too Scared , Sit Him Down & Talk To Him Normally . Brinq It Up Casually In A Conversation . Than Get Into The Deeper Details . & If That Doesnt Work , Or He Stops ... Than Keeps Doinq It - The Last Resort Is Drop Em' & Leave Em' -Cuz No Laddie Should Be Treated Like Nothinq , Around Someone . When They're Told They Are A Princess Alone .

- Kiki .


Laddies ; Kiki is very muther fucking correct on that statement she has just made . Never let a man treat you like your nothing but don't always trip on the spot on it . there is a place & time for everything & keeping your cool is a must in situations like that; Keep it on the line, EXCEPT for if this is a daily basis thing ; don't trade in your dignity for forgiveness . you gotta respect yourself first before ANYONE . Men, we are NOT & i repeat NOT saying that you can't have friends cos i'de be dammed if my boyfriend told me i cant do this & do that . but fellas, you need to respect your chick & her feelings on shit too . I don't think its right for a man to treat his lady like that, it shouldn't happen period, but men are men & you cant really stop him unless he loves you enough too stop . My momma always tells me, a guy is never gonna be the same in their relationship in front of their boys cos they're afraid of being called a pussy, a bitch, shit like that, & that not what they wanna hear so they avoid it as much as possible but don't let it get to the point to were he is treating you like some hoe off the street . Every woman deserves to be happy, & don't let someone take your happiness away, especially someone who means less to you then the dirt under your feet .

- ♥ Bibi .

Thursday, June 24, 2010

Fighting you & Fighting for you

My ladiess ; todays topic, is on girls & what they go through as of other females . What I mean by that is, I know every girl has had some type of conflict w/ another chick, thats P E R F E C T L Y normal. But, I also know that a lot of chicks have gotten into fights because of these problems . Look, from one banger to another, I know what thats like . I have whooped a bitches ass since I can remember, but I have also, been beaten in a fight . Im not afraid to be honest about it, but ladies, is it a good reason to fight? probably not . Who had fought one of their friends? Someone you have known for years & thought you could trust? Listen, I have been through that & I'm sure my main hooe, Kiki also has . I must say, the adrenaline rush you get before, after & during is sensational & it almost feels like your on a roller coaster . But after that, you could have lost a friend that you have had for years, maybe even your whole life? I honestly promote fighting, I think bitches talk to much shit & sometimes deserve to get that ass beat, ima tell it to you straight, i aint gonna sugar coat shit for anyone, thats not how i roll . I cant tell anyone of you ladies not to fight for what you believe, or what that problem is at the time, but be prepared for the consequences & the future problems that could come alone w/ it . When you have a tight friendship, something that you DONT want to lose, this is where the fighting for you comes in ; never be afraid to stand up for your people, & never be afraid to stand for what you believe in . When you have enemies, thats because you stood for your shit & you stood your ground . My ladiesss, i love all of you, & if you gotta questions, ask myself or Kiki ; we obviously know W T F were talking abouttt ( :
- ♥ Bibi .


- Supp Ladies , This Kiki Here . Now Like Aubss Said Uhp There , Its True - Females Fight . ALL THE DAMN TIME . But The Real Question Is Why ? - Should You Fiqht Because 'She Stole Your Man' ? - No . Thats Fuckinq Stupid . I've Done My Share Of Whoopinq Bitches Asses , Even Since I Could Understand How Bad A Punch In The Face Could Hurt Someone . And Once Aqain . Like Bibi Said . Before You Fight , You Feel Like Nothinq & Noone In The World Can Stop You . I Feel Like People Should Know The Difference Between Fiqhtinq For What You Believe In , And Fighting For A Stupid Reason . If Someone , Is Disrespectinq Any Part Of You- That Includes Family , Reliqon , ANYTHING . That Riqht There Is A Situation To Fiqht In . HOWEVER , If Someone Is Just Talkinq Shiitt . Which All Female's Do - Cuz They LOVE Drama . Than What's The Point Of Fiqhtinq ? - What The Fuck Will It Solve . It Can Make Them Shudduhp . Yeah .. Temporarily . And That's Pretty Much it . Also , Yuh Should Think To Your Own Self . Is This Worth It ? - Could Possibly Loosinq A Best Friend , Be Worth It ? - Uh , No . UNLESS THE GIRL IS TALKING ABSOLUTE WRECKLESS , Or Swinqs At You . Another Thinq Is , Laddies .. You Always Have To Remember That The Female Race , LIVES AND FEEDS Off Of Drama . No Matter Where Yuh Go , Bitches Will Run Their Mouth . But What Do We Call Them Now An Days ? - H A T E R S ! . You Cant Fiqht Every Bitch In The World That Talks Shit . So What's The Point . Another Thinq . Me Personally , I Think If Yuh Still Fiqht Over Lil Kiddy Shit , Your Not Grown Yet . Grow The Fuck Up . FEMALES ARE ALWAYS GUNNA HATE . If You Need To Fiqht , Or If A Bitch Swings At You 1st [ Whoopp They Ass ! ) - But If You Dont Need To , Dunt Do It (: .
Alll Myy Reall Females Out There ,
Have A Goodniqhtt .
- Kiki .

Wednesday, June 23, 2010

Lovinq Yuh & Loosinq Me ?

Hello ladies ; Bibi, here.
How is everyone? well, Here is what i have to say right now ;
Who here is in a relationship? no matter how long. Do you know what it feels like to put your mans on a thrown, but you get treated like the peasant? I know exactly how you feel about that & frankly, the shit ain't right. I know its not. Anyways, myself is in a relationship. Its got its ups & downs but i love em` to death. There is never a doubt in my mind that i love him, but the problem w/ love is that you can sometimes forget you have a personality too, & you have feelings too; people tend to push their feelings aside for the significant other, well at least, women do that for their boys; Ladies, don't let a man shoot you down & make you think you don't have a self esteem, once that happened, you need to let your man know how you feeling, if shit don't change, i hate to say it, but you gotta let it go; I cant say for myself that i always take my own advice, well because i love my man & i couldn't leave him. But if you see your man trying, that's something good that you can look forward to something that may work out in the future.
- Bibi .


Ladies , Woman , Girls ... We Are ALL Stronq Enouqh To Do What We Put Our Mind Too . Everythinq That Bibi Up There Is Sayinq Is True . You're Always Trying To Make Your , Partner Happy . Sometimes In That Process , We Loose A Little Bit Of Ourselves . It's Always Important To Remember To Keep Your Relationship 50 , 50 . - You Should Never Feel As Thouqh , You're The Only Person Trying . Sometime Who We Think Loves Us , Can Fuck Us Over .But How Could That Happen If He Said He Loves You ? - Laddies , ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS . I Cant Say That Enouqh . You Should Look For Siqns In Your Relationship Showing Disrespect . Stop It Before It Gets Worse , Because In The Future , Its Only Gunna Be Harder To Leave Em' . Even If Your Heart Is Broken . The Way I Look At It , If You Have A Good Relationship & Eveything Is ALWAYS Perfect . Your Not In Love . I Feel As Thouqh , If You Ocationally Arque , Here & There . That's Fine . Everyone Needs Time For Themselves . My Advice ? - Dont Always Be Up Eachother's Asses . Give Eachother Room To Breathe . Girls , Sometimes You Just Need A Day Out W / Your Girlfriends . Guys , Sometime You Just Need To Kick Back & Relax W / Your Boys . In Every Relationship There Shud Be Those Days , Because The Minute You Get Back In Eachother's Arm's , You'll Feel Even More Closer To Eachother , Because You Miss Them That Much More . Me , Myself . Im In A Relationship . Me And My Boyfriend , Both Need Those Days To Just Get Away . I Love Him To Death & Wouldnt Leave Him For The World. Unfortunalty Everyone Hasent Found Someone Like That Yet . Just Know Everyone Has A Soulmate , & If Someone Doesnt Work In Your Past , Its Only Because .. Someone Is Slowley Comming Into Your Future .
- Kiki .

Body Issues .

This , Is Kiki .. I Wanna Know , Why It Seems Like Every Girll , No Matter How Thick ; Or How Thin She Is , Is Still Insecure About Their Body . Like Real Talk . Especially Tha Thick Girls . They Always Get Shit , And Are Called "Fat" If They Dont Look Like Frickinq Anqelina Joliee . Thats Absolut Shit . Society Makes It Seem Like Eveyone Is This Picture Perfect SuperModel Skinny Lookin Thinqq . That's Bullshitt , Especially Hollywood. Them Girls On The Cover Of The Magazine's Fuckinq Get PAIED To Look That Good . Shit , If They Gain One Fuckinq Pound , The World Stops . Now .. In Tha REAL World , It Aint Shit Like That . Why Should A Female Be Put Down , Because She Has Curves ? - Isn't That What Makes Us Beautiful ? - That's What Makes Us Different From Guys . Their Bodies Are Just Straiqht . Female's Should Have Curves . And If You Do . You Should Be Fuckinq Proud Of It . You Should ALWAYS Walk Around W / Your Head Held Up Hiqh , And Never Be Put Down By Anyone Else's Words . The Same Goes For The Skinny Girls , Who Always Get Shit And Are Called A Twing . Like What The Fuck Is That ? - Thats Also Bullshit . If You're A Skinny Girl , Sometime You Dont Have Control Over That . Whether Its Because You Play Sports All The Time , Or You Just Have A Fast Metabolisim . Anywhoo . In My Opinion I Feel That All Woman . Any Shape , Or Size Should Be Proud Of What They Got . Now I Understand Everyone Can't Look Like Kim Kardashian . But Eveyone Is Beautiful In Their Own Way (: . And So Imma Wrap This Up By Sayinq , ALWAYS Be Proud Of What You Got , God Gave It To You , Now Make Somethinq Out Of It & Reall Beauty Has Nothinq To Do W / Your Physical Apperance .. [ But I'll Save That For Another Post )
- Keep Yah Head Up , Kiki

Whats good? this Bibi ;
I agree w/ my hoe up there, stating her facts like Tyra Banks (: Anyways, yes ladies, that is very true ; Never let ANYONE bring you down about how you look - if they don't like it, FUCk em` . Chicks these days need to learn to have a fuck you attitude & strut their shit down the sidewalk like its their own personal runway; My thick ladies, like myself & my main up there ^, we gotta stick together. I use to give a BiG fuck about what people had to say about me, but look, you gotta realize that there is always gonna be some bitch just waiting to try & put you down; Don't let a dude, & especially a female do that to you, cos last time I checked, no one is perfect except Jesus & our father. My skinny ladies - Its always good to keep that straight figure, not allowing yourself to see one thing outta place, thats all good. But just like i said about the thick ladies, don't let someone put you down on what you have; I know every girl has had their fair share of embarrassment in their life, but my older ladies [ 13+ ] you a woman now, fuck what anyone has to say, you do you & dont let anyone stop you. God gave you those shoes to fit your feet, so wear em1 & be proud .
Love, Bibi & Kiki ♥